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Order from Chaos: Put Away Childishness: full transcript and answers
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A short message on how Satan causes destruction by attacking the family, with statistics on fatherless homes. Having children or marrying doesn’t make anyone a good parent or spouse; men and women must become wise, keep sexual desire within marriage and put away childish things.
How does Satan destroy without possessing anyone?
Short answer: By dismembering and attacking the family; he cites statistics on children from fatherless homes and says even stepfathers and adoptive fathers have a great impact.
▶ 0:00 And this is in the united states um looked it up real quick no father stats 90% of homeless runaway children come from a home with no father no stepfather no adopted father so even stepfathers and adopted fathers have a great impact on children 85% of children with behavior disorders come from fatherless homes 71% of teenage pregnancies come from [unclear] homes 71% of high school dropouts 63% of youth suicide 85% of youth in prison come from fatherless homes so Satan doesn’t necessarily have to possess you Satan doesn’t have to possess you he can cause. Destruction by dismembering and attacking the family.
What makes a good mother or father?
Short answer: Having children or marrying doesn’t make you good; we have to rise to becoming a wise woman or wise man who cares for and loves their children and spouse.
▶ 0:51 Amen and that’s what he’s doing today Proverbs 14:1 the wise woman builds her house but the foolish pulls it down down with her hands Proverbs 31:30 charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised most women can have children but that doesn’t make us good or I can’t say us them good mothers any woman can marry a man or partner with a man but that doesn’t make them a good spouse same with the men any man most men can have children produce children but that doesn’t make them good. Fathers and a man can marry a woman but that doesn’t make you a good spouse we have to rise from. Just doing what we do to uh becoming like it says here becoming a wise woman a wise man not a fool because if you’re a fool you’re going to cause destruction a wise woman will care for and love her children will care for and love her husband.
Scripture in this part
Proverbs 14:1 (NKJV)
The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands.
— Proverbs 14:1 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 0:51Proverbs 31:30 (NKJV)
Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
— Proverbs 31:30 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 0:51What does he say about outward beauty?
Short answer: America is big on being beautiful on the outside, but inside we are immature with no fear of the Lord; sexual desire belongs in the marriage God set up.
▶ 2:01 America is big on being beautiful on the outside but on the inside we are immature and ugly we have no fear of the Lord to depart from evil and we want to do what we want to do regardless of the consequences. Men Proverbs 5:15 drink water from your own cistern should your fountains be dispersed abroad let them be only your own and not for strangers with you you shouldn’t be sleeping around. Having sex with whoever let your fountain be blessed and rejoice with the wife of your youth as a loving deer and a graceful doe let her breast satisfy you at all times whoo whoo and also be en raptured with her love keep you know men men and women we have this sexual desire we have to keep it where in the marriage that God has set up as a solution his own iniquities entrap the wicked man he has caught in the cords of his sin very important.
Scripture in this part
Proverbs 5:15-19 (NKJV)
Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.
— Proverbs 5:15-19 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 2:01Proverbs 5:22 (NKJV)
His own iniquities entrap the wicked man, And he is caught in the cords of his sin.
— Proverbs 5:22 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 2:01 (quoted; reference not named in the message)What does it mean to put away childish things?
Short answer: When he became a man he put away childish things; kids come in like a tornado, and he says it’s time for men and women to grow up.
▶ 3:00 We can cause a lot of harm 1 Corinthians 13:11 when I was a child I spoke as a child I understood as a child I thought as a child but when I became a man I put away childish things now I have three children and uh let me tell you this when you walk into their room uh after a week or so you’re like you’re like holy cow what happened in this room you know if kids they they come to the house and it’s like you know it’s like a tornado just came to the house like I have everything all set uh you know I’ve been washing that dishes are put away and and the kids come in it’s like w oh this is over there that’s something something’s hanging upside. Down right and especially with real toddlers right, and teenagers.
Scripture in this part
1 Corinthians 13:11 (NKJV)
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
— 1 Corinthians 13:11 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 3:00What happens when we bring a kid mentality into marriage?
Short answer: We get married, never grow up, are selfish with one another and cause chaos; we have to put that behind us.
▶ 3:54 Too they come in the house everything has been moved everything is you go in the bathroom ho what just happen in here. Amen when I was a child I spoke as a child I understood as a child I acted like a child I thought as a child but when I became a man I put away childish things men and women it’s time to grow up. Amen and we become very selfish you know we get married and we never grew up and we are selfish with one another and it hurts it can hurt one another because we act like. Children got to you got we got to go grow from being a child and so I bring that up because kids you know they they’re wonderful in everything but uh if you take your kid mentality into a relationship your kid mentality into your life you’re going you’re going to cause. Chaos amen you understand what I’m saying we got to put that behind us.
More questions this message answers
Short answers drawn only from what he says in this message, each with the moment in the video.
Where did the fatherless statistics come from?
He says he looked them up real quick; they are United States figures.
Does marrying make someone a good spouse?
No; any woman can marry a man and most men can produce children, but that doesn’t make them good spouses or parents.
What does Proverbs 5 tell men?
Drink water from your own cistern; you shouldn’t be sleeping around.
Scripture (NKJV)Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.
— Proverbs 5:15-19 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 2:01
What is wrong with doing what we want?
We want to do what we want regardless of the consequences, with no fear of the Lord to depart from evil.
Is it only toddlers who make a mess?
No, teenagers too; you go in the bathroom and wonder what just happened.
About this transcript
This transcript comes from YouTube’s automatic English captions, which supply the timing and the words. Punctuation, capitalization and paragraphing were added from the speaker’s pauses and then corrected by hand, and obvious caption errors (names, Bible references) were fixed; his wording was not rewritten. “[unclear]” marks a word or name that was not clear. Editor notes: Short excerpt (about 5 minutes). He cites “Proverbs 5:15” and reads on through verses 18–19 and 22. Select any time to jump to that moment on YouTube.
