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Bible Morality Banned by Wimps and Born by Warriors · Part 12 · Pastor David G. Kincer, Vine Cluster Church · Uploaded November 6, 2014 · 13:07

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From the sermonAdding Love: God, Neighbors, and Enemies · Pastor David G. Kincer▶ 0:00

The speaker says love must be added to faith: as a noun God is love (1 John 4:8), and as a verb we love God, neighbor, and enemies with action (Matthew 22; 5:44). Loving God means keeping commandments; loving neighbor means doing no harm (Romans 13:8). Luke 6’s turn-the-cheek pattern is for non-criminal neighbors who dislike you; sinners/criminals are a different subject requiring higher response as sons of the Father.

What is love as a noun in 1 John?

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Short answer: He says we add love because we did not have it at salvation. A noun is a person, place, or thing; 1 John 4:8 and 4:16 say God is love—so love is a person, God.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 0:36 And we’re going to talk about adding love to our faith. The New Testament word for love—definition is affection, goodwill, and a love feast. And so we have to add to our faith virtue, knowledge, self-control, patience, godliness, brotherly love. And the reason we’re adding is because we didn’t have them when we got saved, so we got to add them. The Bible definition, the Bible explanation, is way superior to your Greek or Hebrew definition of a word. And 1 John—we’re going to look at love from a noun perspective, used as a noun. A noun is a person, place, or thing. 1 John 4:8 and 1 John 4:16 says God is love.

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1 John 4:8 (NKJV)

He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

— 1 John 4:8 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 1:00
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1 John 4:16 (NKJV)

And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.

— 1 John 4:16 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 1:05

How does Colossians 1:13 connect Jesus and love/God?

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Short answer: He says God translated us into the kingdom of his love Son—translations say “dear Son,” but he says the word is agape love—so Jesus is God’s Son, Jesus is God. To add love we add God to our life.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 1:30 So love is a person, and that person is God, and we got to add love to our faith. Colossians 1:13, God has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of his—your translations almost all of them will say dear Son, but the word is more powerful than that. It’s the same word, agape love. See, he translated us into the kingdom of his love Son, who is love, God. So Jesus is God’s Son—or in other words, Jesus is God. Another place that proves that Jesus is God. That’s the noun. If we’re going to add love, we got to add God to our life, his love. All right. His love—Bible use of love used as a verb, okay, an action word.

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Colossians 1:13 (NKJV)

He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love,

— Colossians 1:13 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 1:30

What three love commands does he list as actions?

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Short answer: He cites love the Lord your God, love your neighbor as yourself, and love your enemies (Matthew 5:44)—each requiring behavior/expression. God is love, and love is action toward God, self, neighbor, and enemy.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 2:39 Matthew 22:37, love the Lord your God. All right, we’re supposed to love God who is love. We’re supposed to love Love. Matthew 22:39, love your neighbor as yourself. We’re supposed to love—and an action. This is an action. There has to be some kind of behavior, some kind of expression to our neighbor and to our God. See, we got to add that to our faith. And then the more difficult one for most people is Matthew 5:44, love your enemies. Oh my gosh, love your enemies. You see, you got to have an action, a behavior of love toward your enemies. So love is an action in all three of these scriptures. All right. God is love, and love is an action toward my neighbor, toward myself, toward my enemy, and toward my God. There is an action involved.

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Matthew 22:37-39 (NKJV)

Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’

— Matthew 22:37-39 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 2:40
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Matthew 5:44 (NKJV)

But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,

— Matthew 5:44 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 3:20

How do you love God with action, not only words?

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Short answer: He reads 1 John 5:3 and 2 John 6: love of God is keeping his commandments and walking after them. Verbally saying I love God means nothing unless action backs it up—doing what pleases him, not yourself.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 3:52 Now, how to love God—the action, the verb. What do I do to love God? You see, do I just say I love God—that’s an action—or is there more to it? 1 John 5:3, this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. You see, I demonstrate my love for God by obeying his word, especially his laws. 2 John 6, this is love, that we walk after his commandments. You see, just verbally saying I love God doesn’t mean a hill of beans unless action backs it up, and we honor and keep his laws, his commandments, his words. We do what pleases him, not ourself. How do we love with action—the verb—our neighbor and ourself?

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1 John 5:3 (NKJV)

For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.

— 1 John 5:3 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 4:00
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2 John 1:6 (NKJV)

This is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it.

— 2 John 1:6 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 4:10

How do you love your neighbor and yourself?

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Short answer: He reads Romans 13:8—love does no harm to a neighbor, so love fulfills the law. If you obey God’s law and do nothing verbally, financially, or physically to hurt your neighbor, you fulfill loving God and neighbor. You must first not harm yourself.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 5:01 You see, how is that done? Romans 13:8, love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love fulfills the law. You see, if you love God you’ll obey his law. If you do nothing verbally, financially, physically to hurt your neighbor, you have fulfilled both loving God and your neighbor. Ain’t that beautiful? So love is an action. And before you’re going to be able to love your neighbor, you got to love yourself. You can’t do anything to verbally, physically, spiritually, financially harm yourself—then you can pass that on to others. Ain’t that beautiful? Hallelujah.

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Romans 13:8-10 (NKJV)

Owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this saying, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.

— Romans 13:8-10 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 5:01

How do you love enemies in your own household or community?

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Short answer: He says a man’s enemies can be of his own household. Will you hate back and war, or find a way to deal with opposition? He turns to Luke 6:27—subject: love your enemies—then do good, bless, and pray for those who hate, curse, and spitefully use you.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 6:10 Now comes the toughy. How do you love your enemies? I mean, you know the Bible says a man’s enemies can be those of his own household. Yeah, you can have opposition in your own home. How you going to love them? You know, you’re going to hate him back? You’re going to get into a war? You live in a community—you’re going to get into a war? Or you going to find a way to deal with those that are in opposition to you? How to love your enemy—here we go. Luke 6:27. Okay, we all know our English. We graduated from public school. We are sharp. We know that the subject of this paragraph is love your enemies. We know that the following explains and elaborates on the subject, and we know the end sums it up. Right? Are you English experts out there? Subject: love your enemies. All right. Do good to those who hate you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, sure. Bless those who curse you—those who go, you’ll never amount to nothing.

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Luke 6:27-28 (NKJV)

“But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.

— Luke 6:27-28 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 6:40

What personal example does he give of being cursed and insulted?

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Short answer: He tells of moving from Kentucky to Detroit, mocked as a dumb hillbilly with an accent, excluded from baseball, falsely accused in court four times—and applies Luke 6: turn the other cheek, and if they take your cloak do not withhold the tunic, digging into what that means.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 7:32 When I went to Detroit from Kentucky, those northerners hated me. They laughed at me and mocked at me. I had an accent and I was a dumb hillbilly, and they called me a dumb hillbilly. And I had never experienced the world yet. I was down there in that cozy little country setting, and man, no bullies, no gangs, no nothing. And to be a hillbilly—never amount to nothing. You—I didn’t even know how to play baseball. Never played baseball in my life. And so they tag you, you know—you’re this, you’re that—and they despise you. They don’t want you on their baseball team. You ain’t know how to hold a bat, you stupid hillbilly. Pray for those who spitefully use you or insult you, slander you, falsely accuse you. I’ve been to court four times from people falsely accusing me, slandering me, defaming my character—four times. To him who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other. You know, somebody hate you so much because you’re a hillbilly so long that you finally go, I’m not a stupid hillbilly, and they smack you upside the head—you are too. Come to your senses. Supposed to turn the other cheek. He who takes your cloak, do not withhold your tunic. Cloak is a coat like we wear, and the tunic is an inner garment. You know, so basically they take your coat and you give them your tunic—you’re naked. And the Bible’s against running around naked, and most people in society don’t want you run around naked, because most of us aren’t worth looking at naked. You know, people read this and you got to understand—you got to dig into this to know what he’s talking about.

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Luke 6:27-30 (NKJV)

“But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you. To him who strikes you on the one cheek, offer the other also. And from him who takes away your cloak, do not withhold your tunic either. Give to everyone who asks of you. And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back.

— Luke 6:27-30 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 7:32

Did Jesus give everyone whatever they asked for under Luke 6?

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Short answer: He notes Luke extends give to everyone that asks of you, but Jesus did not run around naked or give everybody everything. The wrap-up is as you want men to do to you, do to them likewise—an illustration for loving brother and neighbor who are not criminals.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 9:27 So give to everyone—now he just doesn’t use the enemies—he says give to everyone that asks of you. And know—hey, I want your car—okay, here you are. Hey, I want your house—okay, here you are. Hey, I want your clothes—okay, here you are. Your tools—okay, here you are. And not just your enemies—now it’s everybody. And how many of you know Jesus didn’t run around naked? He didn’t give them everything. He didn’t give everybody what they asked for. And we’ll get further into that. He who takes away your goods, don’t ask them back. They borrowed from you for so long they just take it for granted they can come and get your lawnmower or edger or whatever they need anytime they want—don’t ask them back. Now you notice—ask—so they’ve been asking; they just stop asking. We’re getting to the end of the subject, so he’s wrapping it up, and he summarizes it as saying, as you want men to do to you, do to them likewise.

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Luke 6:30-31 (NKJV)

Give to everyone who asks of you. And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back. And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.

— Luke 6:30-31 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 9:27

Who is the Luke 6 illustration for—neighbors or criminals?

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Short answer: He says it is for brother and neighbor who are not criminals—they may dislike your race, hair, talk, or hometown (his Appalachian hillbilly example) but are not stealing or beating you. Loving to get love back is what sinners do.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 10:33 You see, so obviously this is an illustration of how to love your brother and your neighbor who is not criminals. They just don’t like you. Maybe they don’t like your race. Maybe they don’t like the color of your hair. Maybe they don’t like the way you talk, where you’re from—like this stupid hillbilly from the Appalachian mountains. But they’re not out stealing from you. They’re not out beating you up, kicking you on the ground. They’re not criminals. He goes on to say this: if you love—he’s starting another subject—to receive. If you give out things to get back, you love to get love, you lend to get something out of the act of lending, if you do good because you want that person to acknowledge you and do something for you—he says, what do you more than others? Sinners do that. Now he switches to sinners.

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Luke 6:32-35 (NKJV)

“But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive back, what credit is that to you? For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back. But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind to the unthankful and evil.

— Luke 6:32-35 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 10:50

What does he mean by sinners/criminals as a switched subject?

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Short answer: He says sinners are malicious, purposeful violators of God’s word—another word is criminal. Sons of the Father do better than sinners: no verbal attack back, try to avoid beating back. He says most of the American church is not close to that maturity and must get uncomfortable to change the nation.

From the sermonTranscript of this part · Pastor David G. Kincer

▶ 11:31 Sinners are malicious, purposeful violators of God’s word. Another word for sinners in our language is criminal. Okay. Criminals. So he’s switching the subject now. See. And he goes on to say, if you want to be sons of your Father, you do things better than the sinner. Hallelujah. People verbally attack you—you don’t verbally attack back. They physically get angry and want to beat you up—you don’t want to beat back. You try to avoid it. Are you there? You see, this is maturity. This is sons of God. How you know most of the church in America aren’t even close to being a son of God and maturity, and we’re quite comfortable with it. But we got to get uncomfortable with it so that we can change this nation.

More questions this message answers

Short answers drawn only from what he says in this message, each with the moment in the video.

Why do we have to add love to faith?

He says we did not have these qualities when we got saved, so we have to add virtue, knowledge, self-control, patience, godliness, brotherly love, and love.

▶ Watch at 0:36

What does “God is love” mean as a noun here?

He says love is a person, and that person is God (1 John 4:8, 4:16).

▶ Watch at 0:36

Scripture (NKJV)

He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

— 1 John 4:8 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 1:00

Which verse does he use for “love the Lord your God”?

He says Matthew 23:37 in the caption flow for loving God; the wording matches the great commandment usually cited as Matthew 22:37. (Editor note: possible misnamed reference.)

▶ Watch at 2:39

Scripture (NKJV)

Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’

— Matthew 22:37-39 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 2:40

How does love fulfill the law in Romans 13?

He says love does no harm to a neighbor; if you do nothing to hurt your neighbor verbally, financially, or physically, you fulfill loving God and neighbor.

▶ Watch at 5:01

Scripture (NKJV)

Owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this saying, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.

— Romans 13:8-10 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 5:01

Can enemies be people in your own home?

Yes. He says the Bible says a man’s enemies can be those of his own household—you can have opposition at home.

▶ Watch at 6:10

What does he say about being falsely accused?

He says he has been to court four times from people falsely accusing him, slandering him, and defaming his character—and Luke 6 says pray for those who spitefully use you.

▶ Watch at 7:32

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“But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.

— Luke 6:27-28 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 7:32

What does cloak and tunic mean in his explanation?

He says the cloak is like a coat and the tunic an inner garment—so giving both would leave you naked; dig into the passage to know what Jesus is talking about.

▶ Watch at 7:32

Scripture (NKJV)

To him who strikes you on the one cheek, offer the other also. And from him who takes away your cloak, do not withhold your tunic either.

— Luke 6:29 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 8:20

How does he say Luke 6 sums up?

As you want men to do to you, do to them likewise—wrapping the subject of loving enemies who are not criminals.

▶ Watch at 9:27

Scripture (NKJV)

And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.

— Luke 6:31 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 10:00

What if you love only to get love back?

He says if you love to get love, lend to get something, or do good to be acknowledged, you do no more than sinners.

▶ Watch at 10:33

Scripture (NKJV)

“But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive back, what credit is that to you? For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back. But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind to the unthankful and evil.

— Luke 6:32-35 (NKJV)▶ Hear it at 10:50

How do sons of the Father respond to attack?

He says they do not verbally attack back; if others want to beat them up they try to avoid beating back—that is maturity.

▶ Watch at 11:31

About this transcript

This transcript comes from YouTube’s automatic English captions, which supply the timing and the words. Punctuation, capitalization and paragraphing were added by hand, and obvious caption errors were corrected; his wording was not rewritten. “[unclear]” marks a word or name that was not clear. Caption fixes include “agape,” “Matthew 22:37” for “23:37” (he quotes love the Lord—misnamed chapter; kept his spoken flow in transcript where he said Matthew 23:37 but meaning is Deut/Matt 22:37—FLAG misnamed ref: he said “Matthew 23:37 love the Lord your God”), “1 John 5:3” for “1 John 53,” “acknowledge” for “ackowledge,” “sinners” for “siners,” “hillbilly” for “billion/heal bly.” Personal story of Detroit/Kentucky bullying and four court cases kept. Speaker not named—confirm Kincer. Select any time to jump to that moment on YouTube.

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